Follow Through

Dr. Dorothy I. Height once told me, when obstacles present themselves, the only way to overcome them is to simply stay focused and get it done.

My family and I recently earned a victory against a high school and the school board. It was emotionally and mentally draining with a shortage of time, a weak opposing argument and a failed administrative staff.

My family; my mother, father, sister, niece and I pulled together as we have never had to before. Our fight was only three days long with what seemed like an impossible deadline and our victory was won 8 days ago, and we are all still beaming from our accomplishment.

It is amazing what can be done when you present a united front, and allow what is fair and right to be your guide. For my niece, I pray she has learned a lesson in not taking no as an ultimate answer and fighting for what you want and believe. For my mother, father sister and I, I hope we have all learned to appreciate each others strengths, weaknesses and annoyances.

We feel so much stronger as a family, not because we achieved our goal, but because we all worked so hard that no matter what the outcome, we would have been satisfied knowing we tried.

We were repeatedly told no and each time we continued to push to find a yes, and we found it.

LESSON:
Do your research! When you are given an excuse that seems strong because you are unfamiliar with it, or its explanation is unclear, search for clarity. Search and or ask questions until you fully understand all points of your oppositions argument.

You cannot properly fight for what you want until you fully understand the basis that are being used to keep you away from your goal(s).

Clarity is your friend. Allow following through to be the motivation that binds you to what you know in your heart you deserve.

Best wishes to you as you make each of your dreams come true.

If you have a motivational story to share, please do. I look forward to reading your posts.

Fruition

When embracing change which is inevitable, it helps to revamp your look and lifestyle. Life experiences alter your point of view, expand your desires and rearrange your priorities. This life long process can be more enjoyable if we allow our outer self to reflect the transformation within.

Change your hairstyle: cut, color, straighten or curl it. Update your nail polish or change your nail shape. Choose to wear your clothes differently, wear more brights, mix patterns, commit to dressing smart no matter where you are going or what you plan to do. Try a new exercise routine or indulge in a new diet. The choice and level of change is up to you and where you are in your life.

Your outer appearance makes you relate to people and events differently. Think about how your style of dress has changed throughout phases of your life. Think about how you conduct yourself and the response you receive from others when you are dressed in a suit as opposed to jeans and tennis shoes. Why not translate your mental and emotional growth through your appearance?

Flaunt your expansion. Empower yourself and inspire others.

Enjoy!